Wednesday, March 30, 2005

I Promised I Would Elaborate...

I didn't anticipate that it would take over two weeks, but here goes.

On the day of my two year "cancer anniversary" I planned to meet my good friend Joan, who works in management at the hospital at which I was diagnosed, at the hospital to go and eat. This wasn't subconscious, but it wasn't exactly well thought-through either. I think I wanted to test how immune I would be to the surroundings.

I didn't know exactly where Joan worked in the hospital, but since she works in oncology, I went to the oncology floor, where I spoke to my original oncologist and even asked in the infusion suite if they knew where my friend was. I finally found her office - on the cancer inpatient floor.

Well, I didn't collapse from an anxiety attack or anything dramatic, but going to the hospital and seeing all that stuff was not pleasant. I'm not immune to it yet. I guess I proved that to myself.

But Joan and I managed to have a great time once out of the hospital.

And on a really exciting note, my non-profit, the LifeLab, was officially granted 501(c)(3) tax-exempt status by the IRS. The application was approved in only two weeks. I understand that to be some kind of record.

Wow, whoever drafted that application must be some kind of genius. :)

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Thursday, March 10, 2005

Two Years

Today is my two year remission anniversary. A big day for me. More on this later, but I wanted to be sure to mark the day with a post.

Sunday, March 06, 2005

It's not WE it's Me.

I need to vent here. There is something that aggravates me to no end. I have been reading some posts this weekend and saw this coming up in many instances, so it struck a nerve.

When a cancer patient is undergoing treatment for some reason the people arround them (be it caregivers, family members, etc.) feel compelled to describe what is happening collectively. As in: "we underwent radiation treatment" or "we are halfway through chemo." YOU were not halfway through anything. It is ME this happened to.

Somebody in my family said this to me during treatment, and I almost clocked him. Cancer may affect the whole family, but unless you are the person who has the cancer in your body it is NOT happening to you. For those of you facing this, please refrain from characterizing the cancer experience in this way. It is insulting to the person who actually has the cancer.

Thank you for indulging me. As always I just love a good rant. lol.

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